| [ Friends ] Open Question : Am I in the wrong for not wanting to be friends with these people anymore..? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:18 PM PDT I've had the same best friends all my life, but as of late I can no longer handle them. One had a child with her boyfriend, has had sex with other men on multiple different occasions, all the while stringing the cheating father of the child along. She continually get mad whenever he cheats, but if she does it, it's no big deal. Another recently broke up with her boyfriend of multiple years, moved back to our town, and even though she's only been home a week she's managed to fool around with the previously mentioned friend's baby daddy, (hate that term, but it's convenient) and have them fully break up and have baby momma move away from baby daddy, meanwhile, she has made plans to move in with baby daddy. Keep in mind we're all best friends and have been for years. Also, since having been home for a week, she's managed to get with someone whom she knew recently contracted herpes, expose herself to said herpes, and then get herself broken up with and then she moved on to baby daddy. In less than a week. My third and final complaint, once upon a time had a really nice boyfriend. He was the pastor's son at our church, loved her with all his heart, wasn't going to pressure into anything. They dated for nearly 8 months, and they never kissed because she was his first girlfriend and they were taking things slow.. but apparently my friend didn't like that. A month before they broke up, she started having sex with someone that was once a mutual friend. She was cheating on the best boyfriend she ever had, for a boy two years younger than her, who smokes pot and gets drunk every chance he gets. He's a sophomore, meanwhile she goes off to college in the fall. I know its long, but I had to explain thoroughly.. I'm sick of them calling me, keeping me up like they have tonight because they need to complain about eachother and their own mistakes... they ruin so many people's lives, and they never slow down.. I guess I just need advice.  |
| [ Mental Health ] Open Question : My Friend Has ADHD and I Have a Few Questions? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:18 PM PDT My friend has ADHD and I found out he had it some time ago and I know that people with this disorder have a lot of trouble concentrating, focusing, etc. He's in the 7th grade and I just graduated from 8th grade. Anyways, sometimes he says really mean things to me (or things that I think are offensive). I don't think he means it, and he might not know what he's saying sounds rude, but some of the stuff he has said was really hurtful to me and/or made me very angry. I want to know does having ADHD affect the way a person socializes with people? Does it sometimes cause them to just blurt out whatever they think or to just say something that they think isn't mean or anything? When he's mean like that, should I just not say anything (which was what I usually did...mostly because I was in shock and because I didn't know if I should say anything) or should I say, "You know, I thought that that was kind of mean and it kind of hurt my feelings..." or say something along the lines of that? Now, I'm starting to wonder should I even keep up with him and stay his friend throughout high school because of his condition. He also doesn't know who his real dad is...he left when my friend was a baby. I don't know if these things affect his behavior or what, but, I'm wondering should I stay his friend? Or should I just stop the friendship? If I stay his friend, how can I learn to deal with his disorder? Thanks a lot, and please, no rude answers or comments.  |
| [ Other - Music ] Open Question : Any trendy music you would recommend? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Song and artist please :)it could be dance/techno/pop/hip-hop anything! But Heavy metal haha.  |
| [ TVs ] Open Question : I have a 42 inch LG TV that the sound works perfectly on but theres no picture.? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Polls & Surveys ] Open Question : What does it take to make you cry? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT there's a man that i've looked up to for most of my life, i have so much respect for him and i've always admired him. he's strong and confident and i feel like he's a good role model today i saw him cry for the first time, at first i was in shock and then i started crying too it was overwhelming to see this giant man crumble and break down like that. i'd never seen that side of him before. one of his best friends died recently and he's having a hard time coping with it so what makes you cry??  |
| [ Pregnancy ] Open Question : can anyone help me figure out what this might mean? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Sooo I I got what I thought was my period acouple days ago. But I just spotted litteraly once.and then I never got my period. I woke up thismorning with horrible neck pains. And I sometimes get back pains and cramps still. What does this mean? I'm on birthcontrol but I am sexually active.  |
| [ First Aid ] Open Question : Do i have any Spider bites???? Please tell me!? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT So on my leg where it bends on the outside corner I think a spider bit me. There are 2 small open dots, they are raised and red all around. It is painful!  |
| [ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : White guys love Asian girls the most? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I was told by a white guy that we're the most beautiful, and white girls are too fat, black girls are dark and nasty, and indian and middle eastern girls are hideous. So we're on the top of your list?  |
| [ Etiquette ] Open Question : Lately I have been sleeping in public spaces, I find it really relaxing, why would this be? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Baby Names ] Open Question : What are your favorite old-fashoined girl names? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT It seems to me the top baby girl names like Sopia, Emma, Olivia, Ella, Sarah, and Abigail are old-fashioned names - they are just really popular so no one looks at them as old-fashioned anymore. I have always been drawn to older names but now that I'm having children my lifelong favorites that my friends used to make fun of me over are now their kids names! So, I'm now going even further out of the box and looking for something pretty and feminine but a bit different. Some on my list that I like are Millicent, Evelyn and Genevieve. (you can see what I mean) I'm still trying to find the one name that I love - do you know of any different old-fashioned names that are not super popular?  |
| [ Car Audio ] Open Question : how to wire an amp to a sub? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT http://www.sonicelectronix.com/item_17518_Power-Acoustik-OVN2-600.html how would i wire this amp if i bridged it at 4 ohms to a dual voice coil sub at 4ohms  |
| [ Programming & Design ] Open Question : it's midnight and no 3ds update? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I'm just wondering when this 3ds update will be available? It's 12:15 AM EST and still no update.  |
| [ Polls & Surveys ] Open Question : Survey: How often do you say "I" in a day? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I say I way too much. I guess I am just obsessed with I self.  |
| [ Skin Conditions ] Open Question : What is a good skin routine specific to me? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I would like details on how to wash it, what to use on it, etc. It would also be nice to tell me what makeup would be good for my skin. Please include specific products. I have dry skin with some red blotches and whiteheads. It isn't oily, and I never get the normal red, big blemishes. Also, I have one red dot on my face that looks almost like a blemish but I know it's not. It doesn't hurt at all, and it's not a wart. Any ideas?  |
| [ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : Is it wrong to date your ex's brother? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I dated this guy for a year and broke up with him a few months ago (he dumped me because I wouldn't have sex with him) I've been friends with his brother for a long time and I think I like him now. Should I ask him out?  |
| [ Other - Entertainment ] Open Question : why my 3ds isn't updating 2.0.0-2U? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT when I woke up my 3ds was flashing so I looked at it and it said that the update was in the evening. Well it is evening now god nintendo get it right. I think that it will update at midnight so I have 45 minutes until then. I will let you know when it is that time. ;1(  |
| [ Family ] Open Question : How can I get my parents to let me get a car? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT The cars I want aren't expensive and I am willing to pay half. It isn't really a money problem in my family. My sister and I are getting to the point where we are going to need to get a car to back and forth from swimming because practice is 30 minutes away and during high school season we will be at different pools. I'm just curious if there are any ways to ween my parents onto letting us get a car. This is the car we've been looking at http://seattle.craigslist.org/see/cto/2425119791.html its not expensive it just runs. We both have good grades and stuff.  |
| [ Adolescent ] Open Question : If your 16 and pregnant and move from your parents. Will you still be able to go the doctors? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I am 16 and pregnant and Might be moving away from my parents. will i still be able to go to the doctors with out a parent or a job?  |
| [ Higher Education (University +) ] Open Question : What is the best college for a peditric ?? ? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Psychology ] Open Question : Is love something we are meant to understand? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT This is a bit of a long story, but please bear with me. I've been homeschooled most of my life, and thus my emotions were somewhat different and my behavior was quite different from those around me once I was in a social setting. My behavior is modeled after what provides the most benefit for me or whomever I care about, while my emotions are based on whatever is convenient in the social setting I'm currently in. I act the way I think will make things better, and I know exactly what I'm doing. When I was 16 I enrolled in college (another long story), and at the end of my 2nd semester I met a girl. We were merely friends for a time, until the night before finals week I texted her (after leaving her for the day because we were hanging out) that I should have "kissed her goodnight". This began a relationship that made me so curious.. I'm feeling emotions and having thoughts I never have before. I'm a psychology major.. Its in my freakin job description to understand stuff. And I can't understand this at all. This girl.. This amazing girl.. Looks past all my problems and flaws, and sees something deep inside me that nobody else seems to. Is this what love is? Is love meant to be understood? We've been going out for a solid month and a half now or so now and I feel that this may be the elusive thing I've been missing out on: Love. When I'm around her, I have no choice but to smile, and neither does she. We just seem to be so perfect for each other, and we accept each others flaws. She has no problem with me being 16, or with the long list of emotion issues I have. We just seem to be so in touch with each other, and in tune with each others needs. Is love something I'm meant to understand and figure out, like the long list of psychological disorders and terms I know so well from classes? Or is love something so inexplicable that one must experience it before even beginning to describe it? This girl finds the best in me, and seems to think she's the lucky one. But she's the princess while I'm the farmer just trying to get by. I guess at the root of it all, the real question is: Is this love?  |
| [ Law & Ethics ] Open Question : DUI four years old comes up-why? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Four and a half years ago I was charged with DUI. I failed the roadside test by one hundredth or 0.09 I blew, and I blew .07 on the State's desk model breathalyzer at the jail. Basically I was told I passed at jail, I was bonded out shortly there after, and I was never given a court date. Now-four and a half years later, today I get a letter in the mail from that county I grew up in, since then, my father-who resided there, has passed away-I am married with a family, have a good job, and do not even smoke any more. It says the court date is in four days and I didn't have time to prepare or anything-I don't even remember the "fine" details to properly defend myself. What should I do, and is this common? Thanks  |
| [ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : (GIRLS ONLY)How can a guy get laid easily? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I'm in college, and I've been pretty h*rny lately and I can't seem to get laid, mostly because I haven't tried lol. But really, is there any way I can get laid with someone I am not in a relationship with....like a one day thing or whatever...  |
| [ Video & Online Games ] Open Question : is super street fighter 4 arcade edition coming in calfornia? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT as downloadable content.  |
| [ Software ] Open Question : Bootcamp questions for my mac? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT So I have bootcamp installed on my Mac. Unfortunately, I have no idea how to actually use it now that it's installed. I'm trying to download League Of Legends onto my bootcamp. It's only letting me download it as a text file, and it becomes a bunch of pages of gibberish. I'm not sure how to download it into Boot Camp? Or am I supposed to be in Boot Camp somehow? I'm super confused. Thanks!  |
| [ Polls & Surveys ] Open Question : Random Survey of the day :)? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT 1. Favorite Season 2. FavoriteActor/Actress 3. Are you a morning or Night person 4. Water or Orange Juice 5. Favorite show 6. Favorite thing to snack on. :)  |
| [ STDs ] Open Question : I fear i might have herpes...please help? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT In the beggining of may I got tested for stds and everything came back normal, I had sex with this guy unprotected though he pulled out on the 27th of may then again on the second of june. Acuple days ago I experiance a slight itching sensation in between the labia and not its blistery and itching and burning really bad and I fear it could be herpes. I recently had an infection with with my urithra aka UTI that was about a week ago. I was thinking it was from that but I am not sure. I will make a dr apointment tomorrow but I wanted to know could this be something els or does this definitely sound like herpes? My partner said he was clean and gets checked every year so I'm hoping this is just some rash and not herpes  |
| [ Basketball ] Open Question : Does your favorite player play for your favorite NBA team? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Psychology ] Open Question : How to understand violence and addiction, nature or nurture? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Is there any real basis for there being a genetic predisposition towards aberrant behavior? Can criminality be understood outside the context of of environment? I have heard that violent criminals inside prisons are more likely to have a genetic or chromosomal disorder that makes them more likely to be violent criminals. But these same criminals almost all have something horrible (abuse,molestation,and so on) in their backgrounds too. I have also heard that plenty of people have these genetic violence markers, but don't become violent if they were raised in a normal, healthy environment. Of course plenty of people come from horrible and abusive backgrounds and grow to be normal healthy adults. What about addiction? Everyone that has a glass of wine doesn't become an alcoholic, but some do. Children of addicts are more likely to be addicts themselves, but is that genes or environment?  |
| [ Other - Visual Arts ] Open Question : Im looking for a picture....? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Okay its a picture of a guys hands on a game controller, but in his left hand hes holding a grls hand but still playing the game i guess, if u find it, gimme a link, or tell me what to look up on google, THANKYOU!:)  |
| [ Law & Ethics ] Open Question : Is it against the law to put a minor into submission? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Ok so I know its against the law for someone 18+ to fight someone younger than 18, but is it against the law to, for example, if a minor(17 or so) is instigating you(18) and comes at you to put said minor into a submissive hold until police arrive or the minor decides to leave you alone. Just a question out of curiosity. Im in Texas btw.  |
| [ Quotations ] Open Question : what are some quotes about the sun? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I have been wanting to get a tattoo of a saying that has to deal with my grandparents with both sides of my family, and the only thing that i can come up with that deals with both of them is Florida, so i have been trying to find some quotes that has to do with the sun, but i want it to be very meaningful...some one help me please!  |
| [ Friends ] Open Question : will we last me my gf last? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT i am 16 and my gf who is 14 have dated for a year today but she has started acting diffrent, i went to her house yesterday to try to get her back becouse her mom made us brake up becouse i sent her a pic, and i took her mom flowers and a card asking for her back becouse we are not aloud to talk or see eachother, she has not answerd me and it was a week ago, and my gf has not been on for 3 days because her internet is out, i love her with all my heart and she says she loves me too, we broke up once for like 10 minutes and got back and she used to be obsessed with me, i was all she talked about and all she thought about but she still talks sweet and everything to me and gets mad when other girls text me, but she acts not obsessed with me. i really lover her and she says she really love me and most, but my sister goes to school with her and said she used to only talk about me but she talks about me alot less now and she used to never talk to other guys and she talks to them more now and when i ask her if she likes them she says there just freinds. but i got her a promise ring and told her i promise to never leave her again after her 2 weeks ago even though we are not aloud to see eachother we do anyways.she also wrote me a huge 3 page paper saying how much she loved me and promised not to ever leave me or brake my heart she says i am diffreant and not a jurk and she loves me alot and most but i am not sure she does, what do you think? why does her mom not answer me, how can i get her too and be nice about it? will my gf sick by my side?  |
| [ Diet & Fitness ] Open Question : Do I weigh too much for my age? Help?!? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I'm 12 and I think I'm overweight. I feel bad because most girls are skinnier [waaay skinnier than me]. And I weigh 106 and I'm 4"11, is that too much?  |
| [ Religion & Spirituality ] Open Question : Going to a new temple (I'm Jewish), what to do? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I want to go to the Friday service at Temple Israel. I am not sure of what to wear, or if I have to become a member to go. Can I just show up, as a Christian does when they go to church? My parents aren't much the "religious" type, so I can't really talk to them about it although they are Jewish as well...  |
| [ Diet & Fitness ] Open Question : How to lose weight in one month? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT i have only one month before i go out of town to visit my family and they have really HOT neighbors.. i need to lose weight or im screwed... also because last week i was call a fat mother fucker by a guy that i used to like.. hes a duesh.. I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT!!!  |
| [ Other - Society & Culture ] Open Question : explain the dirrerence between Missouri Snynod and American Synod Lutherans? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT do either of these Lutheran Synods offer prayers for the deceased in their formal church services>? or and believe in Purgatory?  |
| [ Polls & Surveys ] Open Question : POLL: DID EVERYONE LEAVE??!?!!!!!!? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT :(  |
| [ Other - Science ] Open Question : What does getting an electric shock feel like? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : Best pick-up line ever? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I noticed you noticed my body.  |
| [ Dogs ] Open Question : Shih-tzu groaning when touched on sides of stomach? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I have a 5 year old shih-tzu and she groans when I pick her up and when I gently scratch her stomach on the sides. It sounds like she's in pain,  |
| [ Polls & Surveys ] Open Question : I got a girl pregnant and she wont get an abortion ? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT i didnt do anything wrong i wore a condom . I offered her money to abort the baby and she wont . I dont wanna be a father it is just lots of shitt . why is ruining my life . Can i avoid child support by any legal way and still have a way from her . Plz help i am so stressed out right now .  |
| [ Polls & Surveys ] Open Question : Did you cry when you saw the trailer for the new Winnie the Pooh movie? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Politics ] Open Question : Did Congressman Weiner get the 911 first responders health insurance after Republicans filibustered it? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Other - Music ] Open Question : What is the theme song? *insert filler content*? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT What is the name of that song that plays at the beginning of Storage Wars?  |
| [ Card Games ] Open Question : Can someone help me I'm playing YU-GI-OH Joey the passion but it never saves my deck or cards why? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT afther I win some cards and then quit the game and re-enter it afther some time I must start everything from the beggining it never saves anything can someone help me please?  |
| [ Government ] Open Question : Can anyone list what are all corruption/scandals etc under Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Sign? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Can anyone list what are all corruption/scandals etc under Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Sign?  |
| [ Home Theater ] Open Question : Static coming from surround sound speakers....? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT I have asked this question twice before and now I can weed out some info. I have static sounds coming from my left rear and center speakers from my surround sound speaker system. This system is a Samsung system which was pretty high end about 4 years ago. There was a huge tornado that came through here about a week ago which I thought was the problem but I do have all my electronics plugged into a pretty high end surge protector. I don't play the system too loud since I live in an apartment building. I have looked at the connections and they seem fine. Any ideas?  |
| [ Xbox ] Open Question : i had xbox live for a while then i canceled it cause of the red ring? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT now when i try to re join the membership i pick the 10 a month option for a gold membership and it just keeps on saying xbox live cant do that at this moment try again later and then it gives me a code and i dont have a clue what to do  |
| [ Chemistry ] Open Question : How many molecules (not moles) of NH3 are produced from 6.63×10−4g of H2 ? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT |
| [ Elections ] Open Question : Will Obama Censor Weiner's Weener Photo, like he Censored Bin Ladens Shot Up Butt Photo? Posted: 06 Jun 2011 09:17 PM PDT Weiner admits that he texted the Weener Photo to his intern. Weiner has a Alibi for his Weener, he is saying that she, the Democrat intern, was Sleepless in Seattle and needed his, Weiner's Weener to look at. Weiner's Democrat Weener is the last thing that I would want to look at whether I was in Seattle, Sedona or Syracuse.  |
